The scholars and I have a genius idea...one that could really help baby Ray. I wrote a story about him that I'm posting below...let me know what you think! I'm counting on my faithful blog readers to point this budding non-profit in the right direction. Look out for a kickstarter (www.kickstarter.com) in the coming week...
And as a note - Ray is the name of one of the scholar's fathers who passed away from a brain tumor when she was a teenager...
Here's the story I wrote: The Life of Ray Foundation.
Two orphans become one family.
There were four strangers sent to Kintampo, Ghana to live, learn and work in a rural hospital. Despite differing culture backgrounds, hometowns, colleges, and medical schools, the four women found many things in common. Fast friendships developed, whose bonds are woven from the finest kente cloth. They would never unravel and would form a sisterhood…a family in a foreign country.
It was this family that found an abandoned baby boy, wrapped in a cut up potato sack in the back of a rustic maternity ward. At the time he was an orphan, and they accepted him into their brethren, naming him after a father whose spirit was strong. And so Ray was born, and he lives to tell his story.
“My name is Ray. I am waiting on a tribal name. My last name will most likely be Yakubu, after my mother. I don’t know my father. I don’t know much. I’m only two weeks old.
What I know, what I can share with you is my story. My two weeks of life have been filled with heartache and adventure.”
As four foreigners, we want to let Ray tell his story because we know that we can’t do it justice. Ray needs us to know about his life, and he needs our help to keep on living. Ray doesn’t just want to tell his story once, he wants all the children of the world to know what it is like to be an African Boy. So he needs our help to feed and grow and to become the author of a series of children’s books about himself and Ghana. All the money raised in starting this book series, and all the profits from this book series will go to Ray and the town of Kintampo. It will be used to make sure that Ray’s mother can support him. It won't be given in a lump sum to her, but will be used to subsidize the job she will get to support herself and her child. That way Ray doesn’t need to be sent to an orphanage. If we can raise $2,500American dollars, we can support a baby and his mother in Kintampo, Ghana for an entire year AND we can launch a children’s book series that will support the people of Kintampo for a lifetime. Let’s tell stories and make dreams come true.
Read Ray’s story, and invest in a future and a life.
“First I want to tell you about my mother. Her name, as I said, is Yakubu, Akua Yakubu. I don’t know much about my mother. That is because my mother and I have not known each other for very long. Just a few days.
She is not from Kintampo where I was born. I am not sure what region of Ghana she was born in. When she came to Kintampo she was running away from Accra. Accra is the capital of Ghana. It is a big city, maybe as big as any. But I’ve only heard Accra from my mother’s womb and never saw it. I was too young to have eyes.
My mother won’t tell me why she needed to run away from Accra. She was working with a woman who made Ghanaian tea. She was making money. She met a man, my father, and they had sex. I was conceived. My father is gone. He left. Some say he went to Libya. I worry he died in the war there. Others say he is still in Accra. He got lost in the crowds because he didn’t want to be found. I was too much responsibility. I think I am the reason my mother had to leave the city.
She had no support for her pregnancy, for me. Her parents, my grandparents, are both dead. My mother is an orphan.
My mother is an orphan, and she left me to be an orphan. I don’t understand her, but I am not mad anymore. I cried when she left me. I was wrapped up, placed on a stranger’s doorstep. I cried. I didn’t know what else to do. I was alone. It was cold. A man opened the door and saw me. He took me inside. He took me in his car. He took me to Kintampo Municipal Hospital. I wish I remembered more. He saved my life. I would have died outside without him. It was cold.
They called me abandoned baby. Mama Florence took care of me. She bought me pampers and milk. She dressed me in clothes. She bought me girls dresses to wear. I didn’t mind. I like to eat. When I can’t eat I get hungry. I cry when I am hungry. I was not cold with Mama Florence. I had no name. No one could decide. I am abandoned baby.
Stephaine and Joanna came to visit. They found me. Ann and Maria came to visit. They found a baby with no name. They found an abandoned baby. They knew it was me. I met them. I slept. They held me. I cried for milk. I like to eat. Stephanie called me Ray. She had a father. Her father was never lost. I live in his name. I am Ray. I was found. She found me a name.
My mother found me. She didn’t mean to. They made her come, the police. They felt bad for me. I am happy. I was angry and cold. My mothere is warm. Where did you go mom? She is back. I remember her. She gave me her breast. It is better than the bottle. I am happy. I will grow. I tell you this story to remember. I want to know why they call me Ray. I don’t want to forget.”